I've been on a few first dates recently. It's been pretty fun! I've made it clear on my OKC profile that I'm planning on moving out of the country at some point, so I'm not looking for anything long-term. I've been on three first dates and I have one more coming up this week.
The first one I went to was with someone who sent me a really nice first message that made it clear we had quite a lot in common. He isn't submissive though, which is a bummer, but he's not dominant either, so I was willing to give him a chance. He is in an open relationship and moves around a lot, so I suggested meeting up after a few messages. I thought I might still have a nice evening with him even though he's not exactly what I'm looking for at the moment. We ended up having some really nice conversations and at the end of the night I initiated making out and after that asked if he'd like to come back to mine. He seemed really surprised by that, but said yes. We had a good night and he was open to some kinky activities in the end, so that was great. I'm seeing him again tonight.
The second one was quite an interesting one. He was a 24 year old virgin who was interested in...not being a virgin anymore. So he also doesn't identify as submissive or anything kink-wise, but I'd imagine that's mainly because he hasn't really explored kink in any way. So we, um, explored a little.
I'd like to see him again and show him more stuff, but I'm not entirely sure where he stands on that. We'll see.
The third one... Oh my. He was such a sweetheart. So smiley, gentle and nice. Really cute. Submissive and masochist. Totally my type. We had a great time chatting on our date, but he had to go home that night. We set up a next date, made plans for him to come to my place then. I'm sooo looking forward to it, I think we will be very compatible kink-wise.
Then there's the fourth one that's coming up this week. He also identifies as submissive, so that's a great start. We've been talking a lot leading up to the date and I'm starting to get really excited. We seem kink-compatible, he seems funny and interesting. I'm looking forward to this one!
After all this, I feel really slutty, and I like it.
I love sex, especially kinky sex, and I'm not ashamed to act on it. My life is pretty great at the moment. <3