rp, what's with your girlfriend not being into you going down on her?
I agree, deep throating is porn stuff. Not necessarily based on reality. Sure, every now and then it can send a wave of something different thrown in there, but it doesn't have to be the whole she-bang. there is a lot you can do with just the tip of your tongue, the shape you hold your mouth, adding a hand or two, suction, holding on hard, being gentle and repetitively stroking.... it can take hours to being a man to orgasm if you play it right. Of course tying them down and denying them that is a lot of fun too. I especially like to let them know that I will let them when I want them to as I am not finished enjoying them yet.
hmmm...... more thoughts for the evening.
Let me know if this is TMI, I tend to have no cap on sex talk. Especially those of you that know me. K?
that being said, I am posting anyways. ooops.