So I was considering joining on fetlife, but I'm not sure if I should. But I do have some questions beforehand to ask here.
1. On the sign up when it ask my sexual role, there are only three options that apply to me. Switch, Kinkster, and Fetishist. Which should I pick or does it not matter? Would hedonist apply too me at all?
2. How are the people on fetlife generally in these communities?
3. One of the main reasons I never really thought about getting a fetlife, is because it is a social community site, which is fine but I don't think I can really use something like that for dating sakes. Is there anything I should do on it, or to coincide with it.
Might be back with more questions later.
Edit: Another thing, I worry about might be if people in the fetlife are lifestyle type of kinks. What I mean is people who engage in this as a lifestyle 24/7. I'm more of a in the bedroom type. I'd like to keep my sex life as a part of my life that doesn't bleed into all of the other aspects of my life.
1. On the sign up when it ask my sexual role, there are only three options that apply to me. Switch, Kinkster, and Fetishist. Which should I pick or does it not matter? Would hedonist apply too me at all?
2. How are the people on fetlife generally in these communities?
3. One of the main reasons I never really thought about getting a fetlife, is because it is a social community site, which is fine but I don't think I can really use something like that for dating sakes. Is there anything I should do on it, or to coincide with it.
Might be back with more questions later.
Edit: Another thing, I worry about might be if people in the fetlife are lifestyle type of kinks. What I mean is people who engage in this as a lifestyle 24/7. I'm more of a in the bedroom type. I'd like to keep my sex life as a part of my life that doesn't bleed into all of the other aspects of my life.
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