Eastern Iowa Couple Looking for Closed Triad

Arridu

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Apologies for the wall of text, short story is MW4W in Iowa. Still interested? Keep reading! :)

Hello Everyone,

We found polyamory.com a couple years ago, but never really saw many comments from Iowans, so we never joined/posted. We have been looking for the right woman to join our relationship for ~5 years now and have only ever gotten beyond a couple dates with one woman, so we figured we would come back and try a post here!

We are 28 and 33 years old and are fairly open on age: Maybe anywhere between 21 and 44? We would prefer 21+ since we drink casually and prefer maturity, but if you are 18-21 and think we would be a good fit, feel free to contact us and we can at least get to know each other.

Both of us are caucasian and reasonably attractive (we both have a little weight to lose, but nothing major). We are looking for someone attractive and either in reasonable shape or willing to work on getting in better shape (we need to be able to go biking!).

We have a large house on the north side of Iowa City and have reasonable incomes, we would prefer someone local and employed, but are willing to make exceptions depending on the person (in-school/recent grad and willing to relocate, etc.) Our preference is also someone that is willing to eventually live with us, though there is no hurry.

We are both above average intelligence and are looking for someone that can keep up with us in that regard.

Neither of us have children and we don't plan on having any, so please don't contact us if you have or want children. Sadly this has been one of the biggest sticking points in finding the right woman. :(

We are both clean (drug & disease wise) and are looking for the same. (We would consider someone that smokes occasionally, but only cigarettes/pot, and not all the time)

Aside from all of that, we are not exactly normal. Some of our hobbies include:
Gaming (video, board, tabletop, etc.)
Netflix (currently House, a few favorites are: Firefly, Dr. Who, Buffy, Once, Nikita, Full Metal Alchemist, MLP:FIM)
Gardening (expanding next year)
Miniature Painting
Metalworking (blacksmith style)
Brewing
Reading (fantasy mostly, though we read most anything)
Travel (mostly all-inclusive resorts lately, but open to other travels)
Biking (need to get back into it)
Renaissance Festivals

So, if there is anyone still interested in talking to us after all of that, please email!

Also, since this is a national board; if you think we would be a great fit, but don't live in the area, feel free to contact us and we can see where things go!
 
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