Middlegirl
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My car broke down again.. It happens it was a 2001 (yep pretty old) so my dilemma, is this, Renee and Mark offered to buy me a used car this is a pretty big deal in my mind. It made me cry (really) now me and my over analyzing stuff..
I love Renee, and she loves me. I also love Mark he really is a very kind man, but a car is a major purchase. I don't know if I can take it but part of this relationship requires me to not work so I can take care of the boys when Renee and Mark are working so I really don't have a choice, I could go to my Dad he would help I have no doubt of that.... I really don't know what I should do..
Part of me wants to say yes because I need to be able to get to school, we live out in the burbs and school is downtown..
Another part says maybe they should just purchase another car for the house and let me drive it.. Then in the back of my mind I wonder what happens if this relationship ends (I don't like to think about something like that but relationships end..) I will be without a car, I guess then I would have to get a job to afford it so maybe that's just that...
well I would love to hear from who has been in this position and how they handled it.
I also know how fortunate I am to be with a woman who cares enough for me to want to help and has the means to do this for me.
and that's another thing if I say now am I like ungrateful? well not there is another my gosh..
I love Renee, and she loves me. I also love Mark he really is a very kind man, but a car is a major purchase. I don't know if I can take it but part of this relationship requires me to not work so I can take care of the boys when Renee and Mark are working so I really don't have a choice, I could go to my Dad he would help I have no doubt of that.... I really don't know what I should do..
Part of me wants to say yes because I need to be able to get to school, we live out in the burbs and school is downtown..
Another part says maybe they should just purchase another car for the house and let me drive it.. Then in the back of my mind I wonder what happens if this relationship ends (I don't like to think about something like that but relationships end..) I will be without a car, I guess then I would have to get a job to afford it so maybe that's just that...
well I would love to hear from who has been in this position and how they handled it.
I also know how fortunate I am to be with a woman who cares enough for me to want to help and has the means to do this for me.
and that's another thing if I say now am I like ungrateful? well not there is another my gosh..
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