I'm a 33-year-old cis-woman, single and bountifully curvy. I have poly friends and acquaintances , and have been aware of the movement and it's terminology for years. (HUGE fan of Terisa Greenan's webseries "Family.")
I am reluctantly coming to terms with the realization that poly may be the best thing for me. I've tried to process this other places and have gotten some nasty feedback. I need a safe space to figure this out and I am hoping this is a space where I can do that.
My inclination is to be the hinge in a vee (or possibly in a triad) with two men who have at least a strong friendship and who each has their own respective hobbies and interests, but that just may be a unicorn of a different color. I'm very committed and loyal to people I care about, but I find dating stressful. I think it is probably healthier for me, and my partners, to have my relationship needs met by more than one person. I absolutely expect my partners to feel free to explore other relationships even if I chose polyfidelity.
It's important for me to have family and to build a full life and supportive home. I don't know if that includes children, but it would be nice if it including game nights, backyard firepit, culinary experiments, and road trips.
I'm a geek and a nerd. I am interested in things like D&D, historical sites, PBS, theater, live music, glamping, religious trivia, and science fiction. I am enthusiastically sex-positive but not very kinky. I enjoy cooking, being an urban dweller who longs for wide open spaces, and I'm allergic to cats.
And I will stop rambling now. Hi!
I am reluctantly coming to terms with the realization that poly may be the best thing for me. I've tried to process this other places and have gotten some nasty feedback. I need a safe space to figure this out and I am hoping this is a space where I can do that.
My inclination is to be the hinge in a vee (or possibly in a triad) with two men who have at least a strong friendship and who each has their own respective hobbies and interests, but that just may be a unicorn of a different color. I'm very committed and loyal to people I care about, but I find dating stressful. I think it is probably healthier for me, and my partners, to have my relationship needs met by more than one person. I absolutely expect my partners to feel free to explore other relationships even if I chose polyfidelity.
It's important for me to have family and to build a full life and supportive home. I don't know if that includes children, but it would be nice if it including game nights, backyard firepit, culinary experiments, and road trips.
I'm a geek and a nerd. I am interested in things like D&D, historical sites, PBS, theater, live music, glamping, religious trivia, and science fiction. I am enthusiastically sex-positive but not very kinky. I enjoy cooking, being an urban dweller who longs for wide open spaces, and I'm allergic to cats.
And I will stop rambling now. Hi!