To me it's weird that the first place his mind would go is "if she knows who my friend is she will sabotage things."
I thought that was weird too.
Is it because that's the first thing HE would do? And he thinks everyone else thinks like him?
Or because there's hinky going on he doesn't want revealed and he's doing damage control/assessing risks to himself? Like "Busted! Fucked it up with swede123. Wait... did swede123 make it so I'm busted over there too? And I'm fucked there too?"
The whole thing is just so distasteful to me. I don't care if my partner wants to date other people. Just do it on the level, treat all partners respectfully, and without all this weird like he's always trying pull something over on someone somewhere.
I cannot trust a person who behaves like that. If I cannot trust and feel safe here? Then I don't want to be in the relationship. I'm not up for shenanigans.
Galagirl
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