othachick76
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OK so....I began seeing a man many years ago and dated for two years...we were serious and we fell deeply in love. Economic issues caused us to have to find work in different states and to make a long story short the long distance relationship didn't work. We broke up as friends still keeping in touch with one another. As years passed we both became married to other people. 6 years ago My marriage failed and as someone that I cared deeply for he was the first one I called. He was in a semi open marriage where they both had to approve of the extra partner but without me meeting her our feelings for one another came to surface and we began an affair that lasted about a year. His wife is bisexual and I had not at the time ever been with a woman was bi-curious. Well the sneaking around became tedious so I was introduced to her as if I'd not been with him before. We had a rough time in the bedroom at first...note I was the rookie as they had done it before but I came to love her as a friend and lover. They both say we are a family and I've even up rooted my life to move closer to them but sadly It still feels like I'm the "other chick" when we are together. It's they focus on the importance of each other more so than me. My emotions are so involved now and it's hurtful....I haven't said much because the truth is they are married so what can I say?? Example...We go to movies and on dates as a trio but she always grabs his hand and pulls away from me and I end up trailing behind like a pet but what can I say..."ooh I don't want you to be affectionate towards YOUR husband and leave me out? Seriously what do I do?