IAmTheFortress
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Welcome everyone! Name is The Fortress and I'm currently 25. I come from Poland where I work as a PhD researcher in the field of ecology and coal heaps recultivation. English is not my native language so please forgive me for my mistakes. I am transsexual, currently too lazy to start transition though
As for what brings me to this forum... I've always identified as polyamorous but before this year I had no practical experiences with such experiences More specifically, I've always wanted to be in the closed triangle - not sure why, but having two romantic partners always seemed optimal for me in my romantic fantasies. I've never assumed that I would have a chance to end up in such relationship since I live in a very conservative country where polyamorous people are rare and I have never been a sociable type (I suffer from a mental illness that used to make it hard for me to relate to people, at least before I was properly medicated).
But life works in mysterious ways and so this month I have found myself engaged in a relationship with two people... the situation is entirely new for me, so I joined this forum to gain some advice and support on what to do, and what not to do, if I want this relationship to be strong and long-term. It would also be nice to meet some like-minded people since polyamory is really rare where I live
As for my partners. One of them I have been in relationship with for 2,5 years (we knew each other since early teens though). We have been living with each other for 2 years now. The second partner is my first partner's close friend from uni - I know him for about half a year, been in relationship with him since August this year. We all three have romantic feelings for each other, but my second partner and I don't know each other that well yet. Probably our second partner is going to move in to our apartment next month.
My first partner is 23 years old bisexual non-binary; second partner is 20 years old bisexual male. We have all agreed our relationship is closed now (as not seeking new additional people) and we are taking it slow to see if this settlement works. The situation is new to us so we are still at the stage of discovering our boundaries and desires.
As for what brings me to this forum... I've always identified as polyamorous but before this year I had no practical experiences with such experiences More specifically, I've always wanted to be in the closed triangle - not sure why, but having two romantic partners always seemed optimal for me in my romantic fantasies. I've never assumed that I would have a chance to end up in such relationship since I live in a very conservative country where polyamorous people are rare and I have never been a sociable type (I suffer from a mental illness that used to make it hard for me to relate to people, at least before I was properly medicated).
But life works in mysterious ways and so this month I have found myself engaged in a relationship with two people... the situation is entirely new for me, so I joined this forum to gain some advice and support on what to do, and what not to do, if I want this relationship to be strong and long-term. It would also be nice to meet some like-minded people since polyamory is really rare where I live
As for my partners. One of them I have been in relationship with for 2,5 years (we knew each other since early teens though). We have been living with each other for 2 years now. The second partner is my first partner's close friend from uni - I know him for about half a year, been in relationship with him since August this year. We all three have romantic feelings for each other, but my second partner and I don't know each other that well yet. Probably our second partner is going to move in to our apartment next month.
My first partner is 23 years old bisexual non-binary; second partner is 20 years old bisexual male. We have all agreed our relationship is closed now (as not seeking new additional people) and we are taking it slow to see if this settlement works. The situation is new to us so we are still at the stage of discovering our boundaries and desires.