idealist
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I'm trying to help a dear friend, so any feedback is greatly appreciated.
In the beginning of the monogamous relationship, there was great passion and endless hours of foreplay, but no intercourse. She wanted to wait until she felt an emotional connection with him and he was okay with that. Finally, (after several months) she felt she was ready and the intensity of the desire he felt for her was so overwhelming that she gladly gave into him and they had intercourse. She went on a two week trip without him which was planned in advance and when she returned they resumed their relationship. But……from that point on until now (almost a year later)…..there is no more foreplay or passion. He just gets on, has an orgasm and gets off. When they are not in bed he is very affectionate, tells her he loves her 4 or 5 times a day, says she is beautiful etc. He has practically moved in with her and uses the words "us" and "we" all the time. She has talked to him about it and after each talk, he makes an good and successful effort to engage her in passionate foreplay before intercourse once, but then resumes his regular pattern of off and on……So- what’s up with that?? Any ideas?? What could be going on with this dude???
Thanks in advance !!
In the beginning of the monogamous relationship, there was great passion and endless hours of foreplay, but no intercourse. She wanted to wait until she felt an emotional connection with him and he was okay with that. Finally, (after several months) she felt she was ready and the intensity of the desire he felt for her was so overwhelming that she gladly gave into him and they had intercourse. She went on a two week trip without him which was planned in advance and when she returned they resumed their relationship. But……from that point on until now (almost a year later)…..there is no more foreplay or passion. He just gets on, has an orgasm and gets off. When they are not in bed he is very affectionate, tells her he loves her 4 or 5 times a day, says she is beautiful etc. He has practically moved in with her and uses the words "us" and "we" all the time. She has talked to him about it and after each talk, he makes an good and successful effort to engage her in passionate foreplay before intercourse once, but then resumes his regular pattern of off and on……So- what’s up with that?? Any ideas?? What could be going on with this dude???
Thanks in advance !!
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