Hi,
I am have been mono my whole life, yet never enjoyed a long lasting relationship. always ends after before 3 months or so.
I had a discussion about cheating with many people. and my main question is:
If having sex with another partner is cheating, then what about having a deep conversation for 4 hours with another?
most of the responses were silence.
To me now, love is beyond ownership, and the traditional view over relationship are means of protecting the family (in the old way)
I still can't imagine how a poly life would be. And honestly i am scared of taking such, so called, drastic measures, which are due to my religious upbringing and society in general.
But i honestly don't want to invovle my current partner in such path (if i would like to call it one) just because i am on another curiosity hunt.
PS. those delima was in my mind before i discovered poly or even knew it had a name.
to me it feels natural to love more than one person. same goes to kids, I love my partner's kid the same way i love my naphew. i noticed it.
and i realized that most people are not like that, the mainstream people.
hope i said enough to establish a conversation that i need.
thank you for your attention before hand
(excuss my bad english)
I am have been mono my whole life, yet never enjoyed a long lasting relationship. always ends after before 3 months or so.
I had a discussion about cheating with many people. and my main question is:
If having sex with another partner is cheating, then what about having a deep conversation for 4 hours with another?
most of the responses were silence.
To me now, love is beyond ownership, and the traditional view over relationship are means of protecting the family (in the old way)
I still can't imagine how a poly life would be. And honestly i am scared of taking such, so called, drastic measures, which are due to my religious upbringing and society in general.
But i honestly don't want to invovle my current partner in such path (if i would like to call it one) just because i am on another curiosity hunt.
PS. those delima was in my mind before i discovered poly or even knew it had a name.
to me it feels natural to love more than one person. same goes to kids, I love my partner's kid the same way i love my naphew. i noticed it.
and i realized that most people are not like that, the mainstream people.
hope i said enough to establish a conversation that i need.
thank you for your attention before hand
(excuss my bad english)