Feeling a bit of a let-down after my date with Cafe Guy yesterday. It went fine, actually - we spent many hours together - museum, dinner, a drink afterward, and we even made plans for lunch this week. So, it would seem that he enjoys my company. But there was hardly any physical contact all day, and only three brief kisses (one a hello kiss, and two good-bye kisses). They were nice kisses (his lips feel really good), but didn't knock my socks off. The end of the evening just went <kiss> <kiss> <"Goodnight"> <"Bye."> and that was it. Physical Touch is my top Love Language. After the totally awesome makeout session we had on our first date, it was hard not to be disappointed - but that is what happens when one indulges in expectations!
I know he is very stressed by certain circumstances currently happening in his life and, it being only our second date, I really am just getting to know him. We spent all those hours together and got along very well. However, the fact that there wasn't at least the same level of physical touch as there was on our first date just made me question whether he is attracted to me or not. Like, maybe he is only looking for a friendship when he is making plans to see me again?
Expectations are always a killer.
December Guy said he would text or call me after the weekend to arrange a date with me. I find myself hoping he will, but doubting that it will happen. Ugh, I am letting my disappointment get to me. Well, I really liked December Guy and enjoyed our conversation when we met, so I hope he does call.
I didn't text Cafe Guy after our date because I want to leave the next move up to him.