I wonder if in Jill's circle all forms of ethical non monogamy are referred to as Polyamory? They are broad constructionists rather than strict constructionists in their interpretation and that fueled some of the difficulty in communication. The other thing seemed to be that perhaps some people mistook Jill's boyfriend Paul's apartment project for the community Jill was originally envisioning and discussing. I think they were two separate projects with different goals.
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