A couple hours ago, I'd never heard of Polyamory. I did some searching and landed here. I believe that specialized forums like this are about as good as therapy.
That being said, here's my situation.
I've been with my wife over 27 years now. Mostly happy years. But we've had some tough years and my wife and I don't seem to have the same interests. I like to go out and listen to music and go dancing. She likes to sit at home. So for the last few years I've done just that. Sometimes dancing, sometimes more than that.
I would go out with other married buddies and just have a good time. And then I met Rose. The stunningly beautiful Filipina lady that took my breath away. Little did I know that I would fall in love with her and even more amazing was how hard she fell for me.
I told her I was married but it didn't matter to her. That doesn't mean she's ok with sharing but is willing to wait for me.
My wife was originally ok with it, just wanting to save our marriage. Now she's upset and worried about our family (2 kids 21 and 16).
Maybe my twisted mind works different that the rest of society but I don't think it's impossible to love both women.
Today I texted both of them that I loved them. They each responded that I made their day.
Am I kidding myself? I don't know what to do.
Thanks
That being said, here's my situation.
I've been with my wife over 27 years now. Mostly happy years. But we've had some tough years and my wife and I don't seem to have the same interests. I like to go out and listen to music and go dancing. She likes to sit at home. So for the last few years I've done just that. Sometimes dancing, sometimes more than that.
I would go out with other married buddies and just have a good time. And then I met Rose. The stunningly beautiful Filipina lady that took my breath away. Little did I know that I would fall in love with her and even more amazing was how hard she fell for me.
I told her I was married but it didn't matter to her. That doesn't mean she's ok with sharing but is willing to wait for me.
My wife was originally ok with it, just wanting to save our marriage. Now she's upset and worried about our family (2 kids 21 and 16).
Maybe my twisted mind works different that the rest of society but I don't think it's impossible to love both women.
Today I texted both of them that I loved them. They each responded that I made their day.
Am I kidding myself? I don't know what to do.
Thanks