Inyourendo
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House hunting stinks. He wants his mom to live with him to save money which is great but thwn that means the 2 bedroom place he can afford won't have a bedroom for the kids. He doesn't want to get a 3 bedroom because when she eventually gets a boyfriend and moves out he won't be able to afford it. I feel like im trading one situation (kiss not having a room ) for another (kids still not having a room ) hopefully the colorful house for $495 works out (it has a big fenced back yard) otherwise a 3 bedroom townhouse for $395 might work although tbt I hate apartments
. I really wish a house was in the budget but sam hasn't gotten a better job despite his bragging of past income and his ability to make more than double his income now. I tried to encourage him to start doing all these things be said hw can but then he got defensive. I fear he's become complacent with his easy bachelor life and living paycheck to paycheck he's not really focussed on saving for his future. I feel like this thing we're doing isn't going to grow beyond what we have now. I don't feel like im a partner to him. I feel like a visitor.
. I really wish a house was in the budget but sam hasn't gotten a better job despite his bragging of past income and his ability to make more than double his income now. I tried to encourage him to start doing all these things be said hw can but then he got defensive. I fear he's become complacent with his easy bachelor life and living paycheck to paycheck he's not really focussed on saving for his future. I feel like this thing we're doing isn't going to grow beyond what we have now. I don't feel like im a partner to him. I feel like a visitor.