Blissismydivision
New member
Hello,
new to this site! Been wondering how to meet people and have questions.
I had been in a few poly relationships years ago (we called it "open" back then) but tried to live with monogamy even though it never felt natural. Over the years, I cheated and wished I could be honest about it. (I always thought that the relationship in Paint Your Wagon with Elizabeth, Ben and Partner was the "ideal" arrangement!!). I have now been single for 3 years and have trouble finding even one person to date let alone more than one which I would like very much!
I live rurally and although I am only a few hours from the nearest large city, I am not locating "my species" for which to date. I am open to poly, I am kinky and on FetLife and OKCupid...I guess I am stilling learning patience but at my age, 45, would like to get on with life and share the adventure. In the mean time, I thought coming to the forum would help me not feel like I am the "only one" interested in this lifestyle because in my network of friends and community, I am.
So hello, nice to meet all of you and I hope to find out about events and meet ups in Northern California! Luvs!!!
new to this site! Been wondering how to meet people and have questions.
I had been in a few poly relationships years ago (we called it "open" back then) but tried to live with monogamy even though it never felt natural. Over the years, I cheated and wished I could be honest about it. (I always thought that the relationship in Paint Your Wagon with Elizabeth, Ben and Partner was the "ideal" arrangement!!). I have now been single for 3 years and have trouble finding even one person to date let alone more than one which I would like very much!
I live rurally and although I am only a few hours from the nearest large city, I am not locating "my species" for which to date. I am open to poly, I am kinky and on FetLife and OKCupid...I guess I am stilling learning patience but at my age, 45, would like to get on with life and share the adventure. In the mean time, I thought coming to the forum would help me not feel like I am the "only one" interested in this lifestyle because in my network of friends and community, I am.
So hello, nice to meet all of you and I hope to find out about events and meet ups in Northern California! Luvs!!!