thedevotedcouple
New member
Hello new Universe of like-minded people! We are a married couple of 12 years who've recently experienced our first sexual encounter with another man. Having done plenty of research on polyamory, we originally felt that the casual encounters would likely be best and "safest" for us. However this was not the case with our new "friend" as time went on we began to visualize ourselves incorporating him into our life as well as craving more of his time and attention. Unfortunately for us, due to the casual nature of our arrangement, he found somebody and had to break things off with us, leaving us quite bereft.
We never thought polyamory would be something for us; jealousy can be a scary thing to contend with and most times avoidance was the best medicine. We're hoping to find answers and inspiration from this online community in hopes of helping clarify if this is a lifestyle that would work for us.
We never thought polyamory would be something for us; jealousy can be a scary thing to contend with and most times avoidance was the best medicine. We're hoping to find answers and inspiration from this online community in hopes of helping clarify if this is a lifestyle that would work for us.