Hi Jeanette,
I almost fit the profile you have in mind, I am 50 and lost my wife (to Alzheimer's) a little over three years ago. However, I am also already a member of a poly-fi V so I am rather satisfied with what I have, and am not looking for anyone new. (Doesn't mean I would forbid that from happening, just that I'm not trying to make it happen.)
That said, I do like to talk and would be glad to have a conversation with you here if you want.
Sincerely,
Kevin T.