Hello,
I am so grateful for this forum because I am desperate. A week ago my wife confessed to me her feelings for a good friend of ours. They both have been talking about this for a while. Nothing happened behind my back except feelings that were never sought after but developed. This week has been a rollercoaster and just when I think I have accepted the idea. Tonight was there first sleep-over and I am so bothered by this. They joke about what his roomate will think of the whole thing like its fun and awesome, but i'm not in the picture i'm not having any fun with this. My wife is so supportive and loving and I know she loves us both equally. Sorry I digress. I'm concerned about sex to be blunt, one of these nights they are going to have it and what if it is great? What if he is bigger than me will she enjoy him more. My wife and I already have a great sex life which she never fails to assure me of, but she has never been with another man. What does she know. I'm scared that his physical attributes will destroy our sex life. Maybe he will feel even better than me. I know I'm getting personal here but dammit I don't know what to think. I don't know how women think and some reason I'm scared that she will prefer him over me physically. I don't know to do please help.
I am so grateful for this forum because I am desperate. A week ago my wife confessed to me her feelings for a good friend of ours. They both have been talking about this for a while. Nothing happened behind my back except feelings that were never sought after but developed. This week has been a rollercoaster and just when I think I have accepted the idea. Tonight was there first sleep-over and I am so bothered by this. They joke about what his roomate will think of the whole thing like its fun and awesome, but i'm not in the picture i'm not having any fun with this. My wife is so supportive and loving and I know she loves us both equally. Sorry I digress. I'm concerned about sex to be blunt, one of these nights they are going to have it and what if it is great? What if he is bigger than me will she enjoy him more. My wife and I already have a great sex life which she never fails to assure me of, but she has never been with another man. What does she know. I'm scared that his physical attributes will destroy our sex life. Maybe he will feel even better than me. I know I'm getting personal here but dammit I don't know what to think. I don't know how women think and some reason I'm scared that she will prefer him over me physically. I don't know to do please help.