wanderingdaughter
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My husband and I have been together 6 years, have been poly nearly all of it. (I have been pretty much exclusively in poly relationships since I was 17). We'd both had a handful of casual relationships, and he has a girlfriend of nearly a year that he loves. We're not poly newbies.
That said, this is completely new to me. I started dating a new guy about a month ago who I like a lot. We have great chemistry, I'm pretty into him. And suddenly, I am just not into having sex with my husband. I've even kind of turn off kissing him right now. This has never happened before when I've seen new partners in the past - usually I want to be with him even more! I haven't told him anything about this because I think it would make him super sad and upset, and have been having sex with him the regular amount hoping my desire for him would just come back.
Please tell me that this is a fairly common thing and will pass soon?
That said, this is completely new to me. I started dating a new guy about a month ago who I like a lot. We have great chemistry, I'm pretty into him. And suddenly, I am just not into having sex with my husband. I've even kind of turn off kissing him right now. This has never happened before when I've seen new partners in the past - usually I want to be with him even more! I haven't told him anything about this because I think it would make him super sad and upset, and have been having sex with him the regular amount hoping my desire for him would just come back.
Please tell me that this is a fairly common thing and will pass soon?