Guess it's just sporadic blog posts for me then!
Things are going fairly well here. Lots going on in life.
I had my birthday last weekend! 32! My SIL also had her birthday the day before mine, so Sudo and I went up north and went bowling with her and her family and my mom, then we visited my grandfather, so it was a nice family visit.
We came back home and then got ready to head out to the local dungeon for their monthly Risque party. The place was packed since they were doing demos of flesh hook suspension. It was crazy but looked cool. Mr. Hyde and his wife were there as usual (they usually always try to make it to this particular monthly event) so I got to talk to him for a bit and grab a few kisses. But then Sudo and I just mingled and did our own scene. The place was sooo packed and busy that we decided not to stay until closing at 3AM. I wanted to go home and have some sex, and we had my birthday brunch in the morning, so I didn't want to stay out quite so horribly late. Dancer was there with her new guy, but we successfully avoided her. I just have ZERO desire to even interact with her right now. But we didn't have to, so that worked for me.
The next morning we got up and headed out to birthday brunch. The food was amazing and the company was great. Goddess came, as well as 4 other friends in the poly community so it was a nice sized group for sitting around the table and sharing a ton of small plates. And the food was just TO DIE FOR.
I will say, I was already on the fence about whether to continue or end things with Metal, and this solidified it. He was supposed to come to brunch with his son, but messaged me in the morning and canceled because he also had his step-son and it was just going to be too much. That alone, I would have been understanding of, but it was Sunday and if he'd had his other kid all weekend then he could have told me more in advance, and on top of that he didn't even wish me a happy birthday! Or just say something like "I hope you have a great time at brunch!" To top it off I ended up getting a flu-like virus and even though I made mention of it several times on facebook (which I know he'd been on since I also saw him posting as well) he didn't once reach out to ask how I was feeling or anything. Or remember later to wish me happy birthday, or anything. In fact, he just yesterday messaged me for the first time in a week since I basically decided I was done after that. I don't hate him and I'll be social when we're in those settings, but I'm no longer considering him a partner and making any efforts to plan dates with him. I just can't. I have a busy life and I'm not willing to waste my time on someone who can't be bothered to keep me in mind or who I always have to be the one to make the effort and reach out to. Just, nope.
So back to Sunday... brunch ended and Goddess mentioned that she was planning to go to the store to check out some cheap lingerie for some upcoming events and so Sudo and I decided to go with. Our other friend (Boris, ex of Peach) who was at brunch also tagged along so we made for a really weird but rowdy bunch of people trekking through Macy's lingerie. I ended up with a pretty white babydoll and Goddess also got some sort of babydoll/nightie type thing. And then while Sudo was carrying our bags and pulling the car around for us (like a good little sub) Goddess took me to the perfume section and bought me a little small sized perfume as a birthday gift! All of this was partially in prep for an upcoming threesome that we had planned for the following weekend for our birthdays. We had decided that Sudo should pamper and worship us as a pair since co-topping him was sorta how this all started!
I'll get back to that later. But so we left shopping, dropped Goddess at her next plans, and went home (Boris had left earlier to go meet up with a date). No sooner did I get home than I started getting a headache, feeling body aches, and then managed a fever. Yay for getting the flu on my damn birthday....
By this point, Peach had arrived at our place so that she could stay for 2 nights for work, and so I spent all evening taking meds, resting on the couch/Sudo and trying not to feel miserable. Oh, and did I mention that this was also supposed to be the start of a 10 day challenge to have 32 orgasms for my 32nd birthday? (I'm not a multiples kinda gal, so 32 actually would be a challenge for me) Well I'd gotten 3 on my first day on Sat, but then with getting sick I had no orgasms for days because I had no energy and no libido. I had monday off for the holiday but spent it laying around feeling like dirt (well, I did go to a minute clinic where it was determined that I didn't have the actual flu and probably some other virus, but they gave me Tamiflu anyway). I ended up either taking off or working from home the entire rest of the week except for Wed due to having a presentation to give at work. So yeah, after all that happening, with Metal not even bothering to check in, I just was like.... meh, not going to waste my time.
So anyway... this past weekend arrived and I was feeling much better. A bit of a lingering cough but otherwise back to normal. Good thing, because we had our birthday goddesses worshiping birthday threesome planned! Goddess arrived and we had Sudo pouring us champagne, feeding us fruits and cheeses, and eventually we took it into kink and did impact play with him before heading to bed for some group sexy stuff. I'm not bi or really into women, so it was more about Sudo servicing us, though there was a little mutual touching of legs and arms and Goddess did a bit more touching of me (she actually is bi). Plus, I got to test out my new strapon that Sudo got me for my birthday. I'd asked for a feeldoe since I wanted a strapon that I could wear internally to be more pleasurable for me. It was a nice test and Goddess really enjoyed watching when the 2 of us were playing! She eventually retired to the guest room (her choice) and we passed out, but then in the morning once we were all up, she joined us back in our bed and we played more. So I guess technically we had 2 birthday threesomes! Once we rolled out of bed, Goddess made us some breakfast since she likes to cook, and we sat around chatting until she had to leave to make it to her next set of plans. While Sudo drove her there and returned, I just chilled out on the couch and half slept so that I could try to regain some energy.... since I had a date night with Mr. Hyde later on that evening! That date went well as always. Mr. Hyde worked me over, and then we went out to dinner and after getting back he tied me up and worked me over again. Sadly, I know he was hoping to give me as many orgasms as he could because of my "goal" project.... but damn my stupid body wasn't cooperating and it took a LOT of effort to even just have 1 during each sex session. Hell, the same thing had happened during the threesomes. So I dunno if it was just leftover exhaustion from being sick, or partying, or dehydration from drinking, or just some performance anxiety. But at least I had lots of fun getting there!
So now things are sorta just back to normal. Though we have more fun plans coming up. Another play party in 2 weeks that Goddess will also be at and so we'll probably play together. Plus a party the weekend after that where Sudo and I will be and I'm hoping to at least make-out with the Party host since he's a cute but sweet guy and we've been flirting online ever since a party in Dec where I met him.
In other areas of life, work is crazy ramping up again and I have no help now so it's about to get hella stressful. Sudo is still slowly working on building his business when he has some spare time, but I'm thinking that's going a bit slower than he originally estimated (not surprised). I also would love to get more house projects done, but that takes time!
Oh... big deal stuff... I started prepping my taxes and it looks like I'm going to get almost $11,000 back. WOAH! A huge chunk of that is because of buying the house and the mortgage and property tax deductions (that portion would get split with Sudo) so the portion that goes in my pocket would be like $7.5k of that, but damn! That will certainly help to build back up savings after what we've spent recently on vacations and such. And it will help to cover us wanting to re-do the back patio area this spring too. Yay for getting money back. Though what I really need to do now is adjust my tax exemptions so that I'm not having as much taken out of my paycheck.
If Sudo and I end up getting married this year then who knows what will happen with us filing 2018 taxes.