WeWerentHunting
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I just lost a really long post involving a triad situation that the wife and I have found ourselves in and now I'm not going back through all the details that were so brilliantly written. She says expressed.
Let's just say there's been much stress involving a new old girlfriend, a recent job loss, a new job found and another far away job offer.
Its safe to say are all scared and I've pretty much already made up my mind but I'm concerned about including our girlfriend in the decision process while fearing that her reaction won't be favorable either way.
Since we've found this forum to have some challenging but encouraging things to say elsewhere we thought we'd join and ask for some advice.
BTW I'm 45 and the wife and our friend are 36 and only separated by less by than a month. They were "girlfriends" in highschool and the wife and I have been together since new years Y2k.
Let's just say there's been much stress involving a new old girlfriend, a recent job loss, a new job found and another far away job offer.
Its safe to say are all scared and I've pretty much already made up my mind but I'm concerned about including our girlfriend in the decision process while fearing that her reaction won't be favorable either way.
Since we've found this forum to have some challenging but encouraging things to say elsewhere we thought we'd join and ask for some advice.
BTW I'm 45 and the wife and our friend are 36 and only separated by less by than a month. They were "girlfriends" in highschool and the wife and I have been together since new years Y2k.