I'll get straight to the chase. My wife and I just celebrated our 2 year wedding anniversary, and have been together for 4 years. About 6 months ago she brought up the idea of an open relstionship. Mainly because she had a crush on her work friend. Well we battled back and forth for a while, until we came to some ground rules. Thinking everything was fine I had no worries. Well we were in the process of moving to Colorado, and she spent our final 2 weeks with the woman, who is straight, and her 3 children. Including our wedding anniversary. Now that we have moved to Colorado they declared their love to one another, she says she loves us both and wants us both. But I am the one she wants to live with and spend her life with. She's having a hard time adjusting to not being with the woman, and constantly texts her and calls her. She has shut me out, and says we will get back on track soon. Feeling lost, and heartbroken. Any tips or hints to get past this rough spot?