nycindie
Active member
Well, it's probably more likely that he does want to be with you - but he's become used to you making it too easy for him. Hence, he doesn't step up and make enough (or any?) effort to let you know he wants to be with you. When you're very convenient, you can be taken for granted. He's probably a good guy, but just not really owning his responsibilities, as a man and as the hinge in a vee.
Still, better to take the risk and defend your personal boundaries rather than waste time and energy on an ineffectual man who doesn't grok the importance of letting a woman know she's cherished, valued, excites him, etc. Who needs that kinda crap?
Still, better to take the risk and defend your personal boundaries rather than waste time and energy on an ineffectual man who doesn't grok the importance of letting a woman know she's cherished, valued, excites him, etc. Who needs that kinda crap?