I take it you and Mal have been involved with each other for about three months? If so, I would suggest that a new relationship seldom reaches a point of stable security in that short of a time. In fact three years would be a more likely time frame for that. In the meantime, there can be a lot of upset and drama, and even the specter of a breakup. I mean, I know that's how it was for me and my V. After we got through our third year together and managed to not break up for that long, then things started to calm down.
I don't mean to alarm you by saying that; I just mean that it's no great failure (on anyone's part really) if a relationship shatters so soon after its inception. If a relationship's going to shatter, it's most likely to shatter during those earliest months.
Hang in there.
I don't mean to alarm you by saying that; I just mean that it's no great failure (on anyone's part really) if a relationship shatters so soon after its inception. If a relationship's going to shatter, it's most likely to shatter during those earliest months.
Hang in there.