vanilastarfish
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So for starters I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months now. His primary is his wife and she is currently dating my ex (we had broken up about 5 months ago). Recently the primary has been calling me names that are not very polite and accusing me of being disrespectful of my ex, with whom I do not have a bad relationship with but, in the same breath it is not the best. I'm afraid that these events are starting to effect my relationship with my boyfriend because I can no longer suppress my negative feelings about what is happening to me. We communicate about it but, in the past week it seems that this is the main topic of conversation. Also, to add insult to injury, when the primary is asked about the subject she either denies, to my face, avoids answering in group discussions, or will not be able to come up with a way to rationalize it to my boyfriend.
My main questions are how do I proceed when being the bigger person and ignoring it isn't working, and has anyone else experienced a situation similar, or the same as mine, and how did you handle it? Any advice that can be given would be greatly appreciated and well received.
My main questions are how do I proceed when being the bigger person and ignoring it isn't working, and has anyone else experienced a situation similar, or the same as mine, and how did you handle it? Any advice that can be given would be greatly appreciated and well received.