Hello all,
Thank you for reading my first post EVER!
My issue is that spending the night at someone's place has always been off limits for my husband.
Now he spent the night at his gfs for the first time with my permission! It went totally fine.
That was last week.
This week she asked if he wanted to spend the night again. And I don't like it at all.
I feel like because I was ok with it once I have to be ok with it after every of their dates now... And if I'm not then I'm behaving like the mean jealous wife.
I want to become more relaxed and a better partner for my wonderful husband.
But I just feel so sad. I have no clear idea why this irks me so much! I would love to get some advice from all of you for dealing with this.
A little background:
I'm 27, female, been with my husband for 3 years.
I've known that I want to live in (at least) an open relationship since my first bf at 18.
Our relationship has been open for most of our time together.
I've read all the famous books, been to lots of workshops and have tonnes of poly/open friends. The thing is, they all know my husband and his gf and I'd rather not tell them about my current emotional, irrational big saaaad!
Thank you for reading my first post EVER!
My issue is that spending the night at someone's place has always been off limits for my husband.
Now he spent the night at his gfs for the first time with my permission! It went totally fine.
That was last week.
This week she asked if he wanted to spend the night again. And I don't like it at all.
I feel like because I was ok with it once I have to be ok with it after every of their dates now... And if I'm not then I'm behaving like the mean jealous wife.
I want to become more relaxed and a better partner for my wonderful husband.
But I just feel so sad. I have no clear idea why this irks me so much! I would love to get some advice from all of you for dealing with this.
A little background:
I'm 27, female, been with my husband for 3 years.
I've known that I want to live in (at least) an open relationship since my first bf at 18.
Our relationship has been open for most of our time together.
I've read all the famous books, been to lots of workshops and have tonnes of poly/open friends. The thing is, they all know my husband and his gf and I'd rather not tell them about my current emotional, irrational big saaaad!