spotthezebra
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I met this guy less than a month ago. We super connected and spent a lot of time together. He has a primary relationship with a girl who's out of the country until the beginning of the year. One of the things that I really like doing in situations like this is meeting my partner's partners, and seeing what their relationship is like, so I see the other partner as a human and can set boundaries for myself mentally. But since she's not here, not only does he have more time to spend with me, but I also don't have anything showing me what boundaries to set. And so I'm getting into deep like with this guy, and have no idea what to expect when she comes back in January. I know it's at least somewhat mutual based on our connection. He's already told me things he hasn't told her because he already trusts me.
I don't normally get this vulnerable, and the possibility that this could become really painful when she comes back is terrifying. But at the same time, I don't want to hold myself back. He does make me really happy and I love being with him.
I hate thinking that maybe he'll realize he cares more about me, because that isn't fair to her. It's just so hard when I don't know what their relationship is like, and haven't seen them together.
I don't normally get this vulnerable, and the possibility that this could become really painful when she comes back is terrifying. But at the same time, I don't want to hold myself back. He does make me really happy and I love being with him.
I hate thinking that maybe he'll realize he cares more about me, because that isn't fair to her. It's just so hard when I don't know what their relationship is like, and haven't seen them together.