scarletzinnia
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Hi MightMax. I made it crystal clear when I met C. that I do not do casual relationships, ever, ever, ever. And he has paid a lot of lip service to having a serious relationship with me. The problem is, the actions don't match.
The other day, he asked me when my birthday was. I told him (it was over the summer). We were on our "break" then because of his wife, but talking just about daily, at length, on Facebook, which also alerts my friends that I'm having a birthday. He bemoaned the fact that he hadn't given me a gift and I told him not to worry about it. But birthdays are important to me, and he hadn't even known, certainly hadn't said anything on the day. I just looked at his page and he was on Facebook that day, he posted stuff. Also found a thank-you post from other girlfriend thanking him for the long hours he put into fixing her computer.
Perhaps you are right. Perhaps we are done.
The other day, he asked me when my birthday was. I told him (it was over the summer). We were on our "break" then because of his wife, but talking just about daily, at length, on Facebook, which also alerts my friends that I'm having a birthday. He bemoaned the fact that he hadn't given me a gift and I told him not to worry about it. But birthdays are important to me, and he hadn't even known, certainly hadn't said anything on the day. I just looked at his page and he was on Facebook that day, he posted stuff. Also found a thank-you post from other girlfriend thanking him for the long hours he put into fixing her computer.
Perhaps you are right. Perhaps we are done.