MsEmotional
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Has anyone been through an unplanned pregnancy while poly? Particularly one where the paternity is unknown?
I won’t go into all the details, but I have been feeling awful for the last week and at the doctors today they did a serum pregnancy test that came back “indeterminate.” Which basically means I have low levels of HCG in my system, but not enough for them to get an accurate count? I think it means I am having an early miscarriage? Or maybe that it is too early to know for sure? (My period isn’t even due until Friday) Anyway, I am going to take a urine test in the morning and I have to go back for another blood test in 72 hours.
I talked to both my partners and they are handling it in stride, but I am totally freaking out. I don’t know how this happened. I track when I ovulate and all the sex I had during that time was protected with condoms and there were no breaks or slippages or anything.
I am just babbling now. I am in total shock. Anyone else been through an unplanned pregnancy or pregnancy scare while poly?
I won’t go into all the details, but I have been feeling awful for the last week and at the doctors today they did a serum pregnancy test that came back “indeterminate.” Which basically means I have low levels of HCG in my system, but not enough for them to get an accurate count? I think it means I am having an early miscarriage? Or maybe that it is too early to know for sure? (My period isn’t even due until Friday) Anyway, I am going to take a urine test in the morning and I have to go back for another blood test in 72 hours.
I talked to both my partners and they are handling it in stride, but I am totally freaking out. I don’t know how this happened. I track when I ovulate and all the sex I had during that time was protected with condoms and there were no breaks or slippages or anything.
I am just babbling now. I am in total shock. Anyone else been through an unplanned pregnancy or pregnancy scare while poly?