Hi all, I've been with my current partner for 9 years, married for 5 and have recently opened up about being polyamorous after trying to ignore it in myself.
The main catalyst for this is there is a women I work with, Jane, who I have strong feelings for and I think may be interested in me, but I realised that my feelings for her didn't change my feelings for my wife, Betty.
Me and Betty discussed it and she's ok with it and she's happy for me to explore things with Jane, but now I'm not sure how I should go about bringing it up with Jane, or if it's a good idea or not as we work together.
I get the impression Jane is pretty open minded and wouldn't freak out, even if it turned out she wasn't interested but I'm not sure.
Any thoughts/suggestions?
The main catalyst for this is there is a women I work with, Jane, who I have strong feelings for and I think may be interested in me, but I realised that my feelings for her didn't change my feelings for my wife, Betty.
Me and Betty discussed it and she's ok with it and she's happy for me to explore things with Jane, but now I'm not sure how I should go about bringing it up with Jane, or if it's a good idea or not as we work together.
I get the impression Jane is pretty open minded and wouldn't freak out, even if it turned out she wasn't interested but I'm not sure.
Any thoughts/suggestions?