Hi Everyone,
I have been lurking here a while. I have a question for you and love to hear your point of view.
I am 40ish yo male of a MFMF Closed Quad (2 married couples). We all love each other very, very much and have now celebrated our 3 year anni. We are all together every day, our children, family and best friends know as well. Its fulfilling, loving and full of happiness.
Being intimate with my OSO has expanded my understanding of my own sexuality. When our quad was first together, before the emotional attachment became a reality, our sex life as a group was quite a bit different. We experimented with same room sex, 3-somes, limited 4-somes, etc... The girls had engaged a few times with each other but not the guys. But now things have evolved more to permanent couple swapping. We all feel emotionally, that we have 2 equal husbands/wives, so we divide our time equally for each partner.
Although our group sex activities has stopped, both myself and my OSO quite enjoy exploring and pushing the boundaries of our sexuality. It has been amazing. However, over the last several months I grow more and more curious of what it would be like to be with another man, for example my metamor. Not 1on1 per se, but perhaps in a group activity.
But I am very afraid to bring my bi-curiousity up with my group. I don't want to screw up this beautiful relationship we have but I also feel I must be honest as well. This curiousity seems to be growing each day and I think about it often.
Any suggestions? Thanks in advance.
Rhom
I have been lurking here a while. I have a question for you and love to hear your point of view.
I am 40ish yo male of a MFMF Closed Quad (2 married couples). We all love each other very, very much and have now celebrated our 3 year anni. We are all together every day, our children, family and best friends know as well. Its fulfilling, loving and full of happiness.
Being intimate with my OSO has expanded my understanding of my own sexuality. When our quad was first together, before the emotional attachment became a reality, our sex life as a group was quite a bit different. We experimented with same room sex, 3-somes, limited 4-somes, etc... The girls had engaged a few times with each other but not the guys. But now things have evolved more to permanent couple swapping. We all feel emotionally, that we have 2 equal husbands/wives, so we divide our time equally for each partner.
Although our group sex activities has stopped, both myself and my OSO quite enjoy exploring and pushing the boundaries of our sexuality. It has been amazing. However, over the last several months I grow more and more curious of what it would be like to be with another man, for example my metamor. Not 1on1 per se, but perhaps in a group activity.
But I am very afraid to bring my bi-curiousity up with my group. I don't want to screw up this beautiful relationship we have but I also feel I must be honest as well. This curiousity seems to be growing each day and I think about it often.
Any suggestions? Thanks in advance.
Rhom