I'm in a V, and my partner is a British citizen. I'm an American. I'd like to make them executor of my will, give them power of attorney, etc. Any advice from a poly perspective? I'm not sure where to start!
Each state will have its own restrictions regarding who is and is not eligible, but here are some guidelines and things to consider as you choose your executor. Your executor need not be a relative, so that's not an issue. Many people opt for a non-relative executor.
I'm not sure if what you're proposing is possible. But I'm no expert in these kinds of things. The only advice I know to give you is to get a consultation with a lawyer.