Inyourendo
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Sam moving in was a potential consideration I had mused. I know some people who have done this successfully and maybe nate would eventually be comfortable with sam around but sam honestly prefers maintaining his own home. So while it might make things convenient for me and be fiscally beneficial for all of us it's not something either guy wants anytime in the near future. Who kno what could happen in our golden years.
Ive been dabbling in polyamory for 20 years and one thing I know is that I own no one and I people can't control their emotions. Its all well and good to say I have been with sam first but ig he meets someone he feels as strongly for and he wants to leave me there isn't anything I can do. All I can do is love him, never take advantage of him, and hope that is is enough for him to sacrifice the traditional life he thought he was going to have. He spent 7 years married to his first love, a very traditional marriage that unfortunately went sour. He knows that traditional isn't all that it a cracked up to be.
He's been lonely. Weve only been spending 1 night a week together since he's been working two jobs. We missed each other last Tuesday because I worked overtime but starting Sunday things will get back to normal and he won't miss me as much.
Ive been dabbling in polyamory for 20 years and one thing I know is that I own no one and I people can't control their emotions. Its all well and good to say I have been with sam first but ig he meets someone he feels as strongly for and he wants to leave me there isn't anything I can do. All I can do is love him, never take advantage of him, and hope that is is enough for him to sacrifice the traditional life he thought he was going to have. He spent 7 years married to his first love, a very traditional marriage that unfortunately went sour. He knows that traditional isn't all that it a cracked up to be.
He's been lonely. Weve only been spending 1 night a week together since he's been working two jobs. We missed each other last Tuesday because I worked overtime but starting Sunday things will get back to normal and he won't miss me as much.