GrowingTogether
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I'm very curious about this in general, but I'm specifically curious about those of you who have met secondary partners while you yourself were already in a primary relationship with another partner. And to be even MORE specific, I'm very interested in hearing experiences from people who have met partners in ways other than online.
The reason I'm so interested in your experiences of meeting people in person and while you're already attached is pretty simple: it seems like it would be REALLY hard. In fact, it practically seems like the sun, moon and stars all need to align. You need to find someone attractive enough to strike up a conversation, they need to have some mutual attraction to you, then you need to somehow get past the fact that you're attached and they need to be okay continuing to get to know you, and then you somehow have to drop the fact that you're poly / non-monogamous and still not send them running for the hills.
So yes. Curious about how you've met people.
Thanks.
The reason I'm so interested in your experiences of meeting people in person and while you're already attached is pretty simple: it seems like it would be REALLY hard. In fact, it practically seems like the sun, moon and stars all need to align. You need to find someone attractive enough to strike up a conversation, they need to have some mutual attraction to you, then you need to somehow get past the fact that you're attached and they need to be okay continuing to get to know you, and then you somehow have to drop the fact that you're poly / non-monogamous and still not send them running for the hills.
So yes. Curious about how you've met people.
Thanks.