Can a kink affair turn poly?

What are his reasons for not wanting marriage counselling?

I'm not usually one to suggest ultimatums, but you would be within your right to say "this is not working for me. I can offer to try polyamory if you will try marriage counselling. Otherwise, I will need a divorce."

Wishing you the best, B.
-Shaya.
 
Hi, first off I would like to say that I am so very sorry for your current situation! I can't imagine what that's like and you have my support, okay?

Second, I think that you should sit down with your husband for at least an hour and set down some ground rules. Set some boundaries on what is acceptable for him to do with her and what isn't. Heck, write it down on a physical piece of paper if you have to!

If he keeps breaking your trust I suggest you go to his partner (I'm going to call her Popcorn) and tell her exactly what you think. If nothing changes, I highly recommend you pack up and leave, or kick him out. You know, you aren't the one in the wrong, your husband can go to Popcorn's for goodness' sake.

I really hope you guys can work this out.
 
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