On Monday night, my wife and I met some new people. On Wednesday, my wife went out with them to a bar, and when she wasn't home (I was home with her daughters) when she said she'd be, I went to look for her (out of concern). When I found her, she was in a truck with another man. She said all they did was smoke a joint together, but to me that was a boundary that she crossed.
She moved out the next day because she accused me of "not trusting her."
She said she would never been in a monogamous relationship again. She said we could probably work things out if we were to have an open relationship, but I don't know.
We've talked about poly before, but I feel threatened by it.
I'm not sure what to do. She's read The Ethical Slut and other stuff, and she fully believes that she needs to be in a poly relationship. I'm just, as a I said, threatened by it.
Thoughts? Advice?
She moved out the next day because she accused me of "not trusting her."
She said she would never been in a monogamous relationship again. She said we could probably work things out if we were to have an open relationship, but I don't know.
We've talked about poly before, but I feel threatened by it.
I'm not sure what to do. She's read The Ethical Slut and other stuff, and she fully believes that she needs to be in a poly relationship. I'm just, as a I said, threatened by it.
Thoughts? Advice?