MsEmotional
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If (one of) your partner(s) starts a new relationship or transitions a relationship from casual to more serious, or begins having sex with a new partner, how much do you expect to be told? Any examples where you got too much or too little info?
Also, whatever you expect to be told, do you expect this info before or after the fact? And if you expect it after the fact do you have an expectation that they tell you soon after the fact?
Examples of “before”:
“Hey, I am thinking about getting back on OkCupid and see if there’s anyone I click with.”
“I have a date on Thursday and I am really excited.”
“Things are going well with Homosapiana. I think we are ready to talk about protection and get more intimate.”
Examples of “soon after”:
“I re-activated my profile on OkCupid yesterday.”
“I went on a date last Thursday and it went well.”
“Things have been going really well with Homosapiana. We slept together on Friday.”
Examples of “farther after”:
“I went back on OKCupid a few months ago.”
“I’ve been dating this person I met at a poly event for a few weeks now.”
“Homosapiana and I have been hooking up every now and then for awhile and it has been a lot of fun.”
Also, whatever you expect to be told, do you expect this info before or after the fact? And if you expect it after the fact do you have an expectation that they tell you soon after the fact?
Examples of “before”:
“Hey, I am thinking about getting back on OkCupid and see if there’s anyone I click with.”
“I have a date on Thursday and I am really excited.”
“Things are going well with Homosapiana. I think we are ready to talk about protection and get more intimate.”
Examples of “soon after”:
“I re-activated my profile on OkCupid yesterday.”
“I went on a date last Thursday and it went well.”
“Things have been going really well with Homosapiana. We slept together on Friday.”
Examples of “farther after”:
“I went back on OKCupid a few months ago.”
“I’ve been dating this person I met at a poly event for a few weeks now.”
“Homosapiana and I have been hooking up every now and then for awhile and it has been a lot of fun.”
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