I am new to polyamory. I'm currently with three guys, one of which is not making time for me at all. None of us are in the relationships, we are all fwb and we don't meet together because they are not into it.
With one guy it started great. We had dates once a week. We were crazy about each other. Suddenly he didn't have time for me but kept in touch. Weeks turned into months like that. It was too long for me not to see him so I told him I'm really fed up with it. He kept in contact still saying we would see each other eventually.
I know for a fact he doesn't want things to be over. And that he is not too busy but he just doesn't want to see me for some time. He dates other people now. It feels like he is pushing me away.
Is this usual situation and I should accept it? Is this usual schedule? Why would a guy do this?
With one guy it started great. We had dates once a week. We were crazy about each other. Suddenly he didn't have time for me but kept in touch. Weeks turned into months like that. It was too long for me not to see him so I told him I'm really fed up with it. He kept in contact still saying we would see each other eventually.
I know for a fact he doesn't want things to be over. And that he is not too busy but he just doesn't want to see me for some time. He dates other people now. It feels like he is pushing me away.
Is this usual situation and I should accept it? Is this usual schedule? Why would a guy do this?