K, on the thread your h started called "Were new here and looking for insite[sic]", D said:
Hope that helps clarify things.
Gf claims she's done, and we went over and rescued her weds night after she had a blowup with him. She was convincing about wanting it to end and K and I were both biting our lips to keep from saying "right here stupid" everytime she mentioned things that she wanted in her life that we're comfortable sharing with her. As in "a good man," one that treats her with respect, etc.
Hope that helps clarify things.