RainLevity
New member
Hi. I'm Rain. This may be an unusual introduction here, but until this past few months, I would have begun by saying I'm a straight, cis female in a 20-year monogamous marriage with the most wonderful man in the world & with whom I have 3 beautiful children. However (of course there was going to be one), we have both come to realize that we are both bisexual and interested in seeking a poly relationship- we think.
We are pursuing the idea with the hope that our best friends, with whom we've been negotiating a swinging relationship recently, and whom we already really love, will morph into a quad. I have a lot of questions and concerns, not the least of which is whether or not our friends are even really up for this. We are not jumping into this with both feet yet- but I'll post a whole bunch on all that in another, more appropriate thread, as this one is just a brief intro. So, that's me & my situation (briefly). I am really looking forward to picking the brains of all those with more experience than I (which will be nearly everyone), and hopefully learning enough to navigate this situation with minimal screwups.
We are pursuing the idea with the hope that our best friends, with whom we've been negotiating a swinging relationship recently, and whom we already really love, will morph into a quad. I have a lot of questions and concerns, not the least of which is whether or not our friends are even really up for this. We are not jumping into this with both feet yet- but I'll post a whole bunch on all that in another, more appropriate thread, as this one is just a brief intro. So, that's me & my situation (briefly). I am really looking forward to picking the brains of all those with more experience than I (which will be nearly everyone), and hopefully learning enough to navigate this situation with minimal screwups.