Thank you again
I was quite upset and then angry, I was upset because she wanted to change and angry that through all of this she wanted me to accept her for who she is which I did. I'm okay now guys I've let it all leave my system, I was ready to give up on dating but I'm not going to let one women ruin things for me.
As far as polyamory goes I'm still open, open to it if I meet someone else who is polyamorous. However, it's just not me. I will always accept whoever I end up with for who they are mono or poly. For now, I will continue dating and just have fun. I do need to learn to relax more and just go with the flow, I think for now I just need to think about me.
I've got talking to someone else who I was talking to around the same time as my poly date, I did stop taking to her because I can only concentrate on one person and I told her I was going on a date and she wished me luck. We have got back in touch with each other and are continuing where we left of, I won't let one bad egg shut the door for me. I'm not saying she's bad as such because I got on with her as a person but to date someone who doesn't want me for me isn't what I'm after. Let's just say we weren't compatible and leave it at that, this new woman seems a good fit for me so far.
Watch this space I might get all I want sooner or later, onwards and upwards.