LovelessLiz094
New member
Okay for starters, I am a new member on this forum and I wanted to get some advice from some of you. So me and boyfriend have been living and dating each other for about 9 months now. This past month, a friend from high school contacted him after 2 years of not talking due to some difficult times in the friend's life. So they have been talking a lot, and me being a mono person, I get jealous and feel like I'm the inferior person. Me and my boyfriend love each other a lot that it bursting at the seams. Just 2 days ago, after talking through some issues, he told me that he always wanted multiple partners because he feels that his love can't be contained to just one person.
He also said that he always wanted a poly relationship with past girlfriends but they never worked out because none of the his past gfs wanted a poly relationship. I said that I would be open to a poly relationship with him, he asked his friend ( lets name her Janet,) (Janet and my boyfriend like each other as well), Janet told him that she is open to it as well. The agreement to my boyfriend would be that me and him would spend most of our time together, and him and Janet would be seeing each other once or twice a month.
From what I understand of what my boyfriend has told me, Janet wants the same thing, just to wet our feet. The thing is, being raised that monogamy is the only way to go, I feel myself opposed to it because of what my boyfriend and Janet's relationship could become, and that makes me worried and jealous. I want to try this out and see what happens. I want to see him happy and he wants to see me happy. I really want to see me and boyfriend's relationship work and to him happy and if that means that he wants another romantic relationship and our relationship then I am willing to try this out. I'm just wondering what others think I might handle this situation. Thanks!
He also said that he always wanted a poly relationship with past girlfriends but they never worked out because none of the his past gfs wanted a poly relationship. I said that I would be open to a poly relationship with him, he asked his friend ( lets name her Janet,) (Janet and my boyfriend like each other as well), Janet told him that she is open to it as well. The agreement to my boyfriend would be that me and him would spend most of our time together, and him and Janet would be seeing each other once or twice a month.
From what I understand of what my boyfriend has told me, Janet wants the same thing, just to wet our feet. The thing is, being raised that monogamy is the only way to go, I feel myself opposed to it because of what my boyfriend and Janet's relationship could become, and that makes me worried and jealous. I want to try this out and see what happens. I want to see him happy and he wants to see me happy. I really want to see me and boyfriend's relationship work and to him happy and if that means that he wants another romantic relationship and our relationship then I am willing to try this out. I'm just wondering what others think I might handle this situation. Thanks!