NeonKaos
Custodian
You already gave me reason for a cold shower.
I aim to tease!
You already gave me reason for a cold shower.
what of the female equivalent of a blow job... do men (and women) feel that when they go down on a woman it is for the same reason? do they like it for the same reason?
what of the female equivalent of a blow job... do men (and women) feel that when they go down on a woman it is for the same reason? do they like it for the same reason?
I do, I get into it just as much, if not more, as it is more rare in my life... I want that juxtaposition of control, yet submission just as much, even if it is harder to determine...
i don't agree casual sex is right and it is not for me...
but do believe in choice and i do not thrust my opinions upon others.
I really, really like giving the female equivalent of a BJ. I like doing it because I like giving someone more pleasure than they can handle. Orgasm after orgasm until they literally flee the room or pass out(both have happened, I was thrilled). I also like the feeling of competence and security it gives(if I give a girl 9 orgasms in a row, I will never be told that I don't satisfy a woman in the bed).
Ugh. Now I need a cold shower.
what of the female equivalent of a blow job... do men (and women) feel that when they go down on a woman it is for the same reason? do they like it for the same reason?
"I don't agree casual sex is right"?
If anyone has seen Californication(a showtime show), David Duchovny's character pretty much sums up my views of life and sexual relationships.
sex can mean whatever you want it to mean. The trick is, to express that and make decisions accordingly and openly in your life that's the problem.
There are definite logistic issues with 69ing
I'm in the "not crazy about 69" camp. The main reason being that both receiving and performing oral sex require a great deal of attention to fully enjoy. When I've 69ed, I find I either forget to perform, or else I forget to enjoy receiving. That's all in addition to the physical awkwardness of it.
I'm in the "not crazy about 69" camp. The main reason being that both receiving and performing oral sex require a great deal of attention to fully enjoy. When I've 69ed, I find I either forget to perform, or else I forget to enjoy receiving. That's all in addition to the physical awkwardness of it.
There doesn't need to be a goal. The worst thing that can happen is that both people get so excited and then they move right into intercourse. The best thing that can happen is that they experience a simultaeous orgasm.