Please explain.
Well, as I travel between the boys (different countries) I am more used to being with them one on one. Next month will be the fourth time we are together as a family since I started to date N almost 2 years ago. There has been contact over Skype and such too, but the physical time we have spent together as a family has been limited. When N was here a month, L was sick parts of the time which meant we had less time to practice being a family.
So, basically we all need more practice on how to be around each other. I mean, we have established certain routines, such as we are together all three of us until more or less night time, and I don't kiss one (much) in front of the other (I would not in front of my friends either btw).
So, basically, I am curious about what kind of activities or ways of being that will be ideal for us to explore being together more. I am not sure we will ever live together all of us, but for sure we will spend more time together in the future, especially if N moves to my country.
This is my (and everyone else's) first real polyamorous relationship, so we don't have any prior experience. I talked to some of my poly friends, they do things differently, like touching and giving attention people do it differently. But common to the female Vs I have seen is she will try to like "see" where they are emotionall and confirm them in a sort of way that is a little bit more than friendship but not overtly romantic. I'd like for it to look like we belong.
But anyway all you people, thanks so so much for the lists! I really appreciate it
I will have a look and make a plan for summer and beyond. My dream is to have photos taken, but maybe too early for that?
ps I love minature pencils too. I always steal a couple of pencils at IKEA