Trying to understand. Advice Needed

Loveofmylife

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Best advise for new couples? My wife wants a polyamory relationship and I am more mono. I am open to the conversation and possibility of the change. I had originally wrote a big long message on here and decided to change it. My mind is a speeding roller coaster and writing on here seems to help. thanks in advance
 
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Thanks Kevin. There is no doubt jealously is an issue for me. I realize that it is my issue and I am working on it. this is day 4 of this new idea of possibly having a non mono relationship.
 
Hi Loveofmylife,

Perhaps you are experiencing the beginnings of jealousy? If so, one of the following links may help ...

Also, I recommend Franklin Veaux's Poly FAQ page if you haven't read that already.

Sincerely,
Kevin T.

That second link you posted was a great help to me. I have a bad habit of not validating my feelings and talking down to myself for having them. This opened up a whole lot for me. Allowing me to accept them and then find a healthy way to deal with them when I know they are not true. Thank you
 
Glad I could help.
 
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