SilverRaven
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Hey there cutie,
I've been told have a problem distinguishing between love and friendship, which may be true, but I've never felt that it's a problem.
To give a bit of context, I've had issues with relationships because I would choose to give a friend a ride somewhere instead of hanging out with my girlfriend sort of thing. And rarely there were more extreme cases, nothinng sexual, but I just consistently choose whomever I think needs me there more at the time, which hasn't worked in monogamous relationships for me.
The thing is, I love my sexual partner, but I also love my male roommate just as much, I'd do anything for him, we just don't have sex. In my mind it's completely equal, he's just straight and seeing someone therefore it isn't a sexual love.
How the hell can I bring this up to someone? I have two friends who just don't believe me, and I love them too, I just can't tell them that because it would hurt them, being as they both told me on more than one occasion they want to start a monogamous relationship with me.
I'm not the kind of guy who has had women approach me like this, I'm generally just the guy in the back listening and laughing at peoples jokes.
Up until now I just sit down and shut up about this stuff, I never want to hurt someone, and it's impossible for someone else who experiences love for just one person to understand, it just sounds like I want to sleep around.
So again, any advice on how I could go about bringing this up to someone?
I've been told have a problem distinguishing between love and friendship, which may be true, but I've never felt that it's a problem.
To give a bit of context, I've had issues with relationships because I would choose to give a friend a ride somewhere instead of hanging out with my girlfriend sort of thing. And rarely there were more extreme cases, nothinng sexual, but I just consistently choose whomever I think needs me there more at the time, which hasn't worked in monogamous relationships for me.
The thing is, I love my sexual partner, but I also love my male roommate just as much, I'd do anything for him, we just don't have sex. In my mind it's completely equal, he's just straight and seeing someone therefore it isn't a sexual love.
How the hell can I bring this up to someone? I have two friends who just don't believe me, and I love them too, I just can't tell them that because it would hurt them, being as they both told me on more than one occasion they want to start a monogamous relationship with me.
I'm not the kind of guy who has had women approach me like this, I'm generally just the guy in the back listening and laughing at peoples jokes.
Up until now I just sit down and shut up about this stuff, I never want to hurt someone, and it's impossible for someone else who experiences love for just one person to understand, it just sounds like I want to sleep around.
So again, any advice on how I could go about bringing this up to someone?