Me (F) and my husband have been married for 5 years. We have had a threesome with a girlfriend from my work. However, I felt a little jealous when I saw him touching her, jealous but extremely turned on. We quit seeing her two years ago, although in heated moments in bed we would talk about those nights with her....
I just recently ran into her again. She is in love with me, which is why we endes it before bc my husband coukdnt deal with that.
Since then, me and my husband have grown in oyr relationship and are more secure. We habe talked openly about everything to her and about the relationship. We have spent the last few weekends with her, enjoying being out and in the bed. It has increased our sex life and we see this being a long term thing. Personally, I would move her in with us, not sure how my hubby would feel about that, he likes the occasional thing, but he tries to make sure that I always feel like his main focus. Which doesn't bother her bc she is in love with me, likes him, but loves me. So we all are satisfied and love were we are currently at.
I guess I'm confused if this is polyamory or something else.
I just recently ran into her again. She is in love with me, which is why we endes it before bc my husband coukdnt deal with that.
Since then, me and my husband have grown in oyr relationship and are more secure. We habe talked openly about everything to her and about the relationship. We have spent the last few weekends with her, enjoying being out and in the bed. It has increased our sex life and we see this being a long term thing. Personally, I would move her in with us, not sure how my hubby would feel about that, he likes the occasional thing, but he tries to make sure that I always feel like his main focus. Which doesn't bother her bc she is in love with me, likes him, but loves me. So we all are satisfied and love were we are currently at.
I guess I'm confused if this is polyamory or something else.