I am currently in a relationship with a man who also has a girlfriend out of town. They normally visit each other once a month. Since I am monogamous, the struggle has definitely been real. But I am to the point where it's not so bad. I don't get as hurt if he is unable to see me after he sees her.
I have never met the girlfriend. We have exchanged messages, but other than that, she is this mystery to me. I haven't seen her and my boyfriend doesn't want us to meet until he meets this girls other two significant others. It doesn't really bother me, other than the fact that in my head I am thinking of this model, because that is how he describes her.
I see him basically every weekend. I am very thankful for that. But he has this camping trip coming up with her and I guess I am worried that he would forget about me or have second thoughts about me. He said he wouldn't, but I just don't know. He says he loves her. He hasn't told me he loves me, but then we have been going out for almost 5 months now. I am scared that this trip will break us. He will be gone for over a week, two weekends, and I won't have any real means of getting a text message since reception would suck.
I guess I want to ask if these thoughts are normal? Should I stop overthinking this? Will everything be ok?
I have never met the girlfriend. We have exchanged messages, but other than that, she is this mystery to me. I haven't seen her and my boyfriend doesn't want us to meet until he meets this girls other two significant others. It doesn't really bother me, other than the fact that in my head I am thinking of this model, because that is how he describes her.
I see him basically every weekend. I am very thankful for that. But he has this camping trip coming up with her and I guess I am worried that he would forget about me or have second thoughts about me. He said he wouldn't, but I just don't know. He says he loves her. He hasn't told me he loves me, but then we have been going out for almost 5 months now. I am scared that this trip will break us. He will be gone for over a week, two weekends, and I won't have any real means of getting a text message since reception would suck.
I guess I want to ask if these thoughts are normal? Should I stop overthinking this? Will everything be ok?