Orlandobif
Member
Do you ever think to yourself that the more experiences you have, the different kinds of people you date the more you change? In this case I like the way I have become and I'm aware other experiences can change me in ways I don't like. I hear myself being far more direct, assertive and dominant to assure that whatever path I take is one I want. I want freedom, I want truth, I want openness, confidence and new experiences. I’m also kind, empathetic and I WANT to give my partners what they want. Tell me your fantasies. Out with it!
That said, the more I change, the more I know my wife will not like my increasing ways. I don’t share how direct I am with others. She would not like me to be dominant. She’s a gentle romantic soul. This would not be hot and exciting that I take control, solicit her desires and her fantasies. She’s already complained my kissing has changed. Others find it incredibly hot, she? Not so much.
I am not great a being different in different relationships but I appreciate we’ve been together 20 years and changes by the introduction of other relationships are not melding well in my world. What about yours?
That said, the more I change, the more I know my wife will not like my increasing ways. I don’t share how direct I am with others. She would not like me to be dominant. She’s a gentle romantic soul. This would not be hot and exciting that I take control, solicit her desires and her fantasies. She’s already complained my kissing has changed. Others find it incredibly hot, she? Not so much.
I am not great a being different in different relationships but I appreciate we’ve been together 20 years and changes by the introduction of other relationships are not melding well in my world. What about yours?